Thank you guys for the replies. i just wanted to get a record of what happened and everyone was able to dispute or add things so that the chinese whispers type situation stopped.

yes pirate isn't for everyone however i like the idea of it bringing all of us closer and more cohesive group, i hope this is the outcome. i will also let everyone i can know if/when i am ever brining a toon over and i have x space/bring gold for anyone that needs it.

And please tell me Romeos you have reported officially all accounts of RL stalking on social media. if it was me i would have reported it and then put them up on the forums and said look all these rules don't matter, but i can be a vindictive bitch :)