I have never been told in church that Jesus was a white guy who hated fags.
We are told that marriage is between a man and a woman, this is the opinion of the church and there is nothing wrong with a group having an opinion.

As a fact of point I personally believe that "the gays" should have the same rights as the morons like me to get married.

Continuing to blame the churches that have a opinion that doesn't agree with you is stupid, its not the church that gives out marriage licenses, and they don't have to preform the service to anyone they don't to, welcome to America and freedom of choice.
You should be mad at the politicians that do not allow the feds to recognize it. As you know several states have passed gay marriage laws.