I think you're doing the right thing. After you get back to work and things get back to normal you and your wife will be fine. You're both stressed out and frustrated right now, you for lack of a job, and her cause you're about to start active duty. It will get better laugh In the mean time focus on keeping your wife happy and your relationship strong.

Oh, above all... Don't listen to one fucking work Drakkis says!

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