Obviously I will not be playing and my advice can be taken with a grain of salt, but think very small.

I would get only the bare minimum of what you all will need, a small house or location with a bank and just stock pile everything you can there while your focusing on making strong characters. There is no reason why everyone can't live out of the same one bedroom shithole until your characters can make a real go of it and hold a much larger dirt patch.

I am Wrath, I am Steel, I am the Mercy of Angels.
mors est merces mea – death is my reward
morte in vitam non habet tenaci - Death has no grip on Life.
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