Well, like I said in the other thread, you cannot hold positions like these and behave in this manner. Especially if you hold a security clearance of any kind.

When doing the background checks to determine a candidates eligibility for said clearance, one of the thing that is looked for is any means of leverage against the candidate.

Affairs, excessive debts, criminal history, alcoholism, relationships with foreign citizens, etc. etc.

You screw up at all, and they WILL pull your clearance. In other words, they feel your behavior could be manipulated with such leverage against you.